3 Things for a Successful Relationship

 Building a successful, lasting relationships isn't an easy thing but nevertheless it is POSSIBLE.

Here are 3 things to do for a Success Relationship (all kinds of relationship):

1. Communication: Communication is the key ingredient to a relationship. Couples who communicate  always have a great vibe around them because they are always on the same page. While asking how your partners day is nice, you need to always dive into the deeper stuff. Knowing each others needs and learning how to listening more and talk less, because a relationship isn't about you only. It's you and your partner. Everyone's feelings and opinion is valid. When issues arises, it is easier for everyone to come to a neutral zone and lay out what their issues. While one person talks, the other should calm and LISTEN and vice versa. That way everyone gets their point across and the issue can be resolve quickly and amicably.
   
2. Understanding: Lack of understanding can the knife to any relationship. Each of us needs to know that your partners comes into a relationship with baggage of their own. The first step to take is understanding your own baggage and admitting your shortcomings. Then, you get to know the emotional baggage of your partner. I personally I know I have major trust issues and it messes with my mind sometimes. But over time I've learnt that if their is no proof, then the crime doesn't exist and it's all in my head. If you are the type that constantly needs reassurance that your partner cares and loves you that you need to hear the words everyday and your partner doesn't say it enough, take the little things your partner does to make your life a little bit easier as those reassuring words. Understanding is about meeting each other halfway, understanding our shortcoming and knowing that we are not perfect. 
   
3. Tolerance: This is an underdog in relationships. In today's world, this is in short supply. When will meet people and fall in love, the honeymoon phase of the relationship can make you blind to your partners flaws. But once that phase is over, then you begin to clock those flaws and it can be sometimes overwhelming. But we need to understand that again, not everyone is perfect. So the first thing you want to do is have a conversation with your partner about those flaws and any logical person would want to address it, but this change wouldn't come overnight. It's a gradual process and this is where TOLERANCE comes in. You learn to not focus on those imperfections, you either encourage the person to change or accept the person for who they are. It can be liken to the process of trying to polish a rough jewelry.